The Day of Love

I’ve come to really dislike the commercialised holidays that only want people to spend money such as Valentine’s Day. But I don’t want to miss on all the fun! I just don’t want to succumb to using my money because of the successful marketing tactics. And although I find Galentine’s Day as being a positive reaction to the single ladies who want to celebrate their friendships, I am saddened that Valentine’s Day is not considered as a day for lovers, friends and families alike, not even mentioning self-love. Last year I wrote about how Valentine’s Day in Finland is actually called “friends day” and although people also celebrate lovers, it is a well-rounded day to love people, so why can’t we do this in every culture?

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It is wonderful that we have a day on which we should remember to love those dearest and nearest to us, although I think we should be doing it every day, or at least on a regular basis, rather than just ones a year. Nevertheless, I will be sending loving eco-friendly cards to my friends, spend a lovely evening with my fiance and remember to love myself as well!

This Valentine’s day let’s all think about something else than buying gifts when they are not needed or feeling sorry for oneself when everybody else is flaunting their love in your face. Instead, let’s celebrate the love people have! Take an example from the Buddhist way to love! Whether it is for your partner, for your lover, for your friend, for your family, for your pets or for yourself. Who says Valentines is only meant for lovers? I think it is a day when you should remember whoever you love and make their days better!

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How are you spending your Valentine’s Day?

With love,

Lii

Happy Favourites of the Week – Sweet and Sweaty Treats

Homemade lemonade – The ultimate summer drink, which I can’t stop drinking. The store bought versions are too sweet and not quite zingy enough for me, so we made our own and it’s delicious!

Spiders are back – I remember around a year ago writing in my happy favourites about spiders being back which meant spring and summer times. And now they are back again. One of them seems to enjoy my kitchen window and has spent two days on it going up and down the window. I don’t usually really enjoy spiders presence, but it seems cheerful of the summer time coming, so I am as well.

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OneSqin is getting more ahead – There is an article by Ethical Unicorn that wrote about OneSqin as well. If you haven’t seen my post about them, you can read it here. In short, OneSqin is a company that sells organic tampons and creams and the profits go to help educate girls. They are on Kickstarter now and I really hope they will be able to make it!

Salted Caramel Ice Cream – It’s my favourite at the moment and I could eat a pack of this a day and stay happy!

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Visiting friends – I’ve had several friends visiting in Glasgow the past couple of weeks and it’s been a pleasure to spend time with them again! To our luck, we had great weather so we spend it on a terrace drinking cocktails and eating, chatting and enjoying the sun. Thankfully, getting burned only a little bit!

Super Sweaty Yoga class – The weather did its trick and we were sweaty before we started the power vinyasa. One and a half hour of movements where your mind and body is fighting back due to the heat and by the end of it the laughs and smiles that you got through the class. The rest of the day felt really elevating!

The Pink Evenings – I absolutely love watching the sky, which can be noticeable from my Instagram pics, and especially lately with the pink skies that have decorated every evening with the most beautiful colour dance on the horizon. I could stare at it for hours! Definitely the best thing about living high on a hill on the top floor! As you can see all the pictures are literally from the same spot because it is the best place to take pictures of the pink evening sky. I really need to find another one as well!

Making My Own Scent – Since I started buying oils I’ve really been into making my own scent by mixing them. I am not too good at it yet, mostly I can’t make the scent stay for the whole day, so I still need to do more experiments and read on the topic, but I’ve managed to make a lovely scent that I like to wear (and build up) throughout the day! Making my own scent I don’t have to buy perfumes from the store, most of which are not cruelty-free! And I get to experiment and find the scents that I love, which is SO fun!

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How was your week? Let me know in the comment box below!

With love,

Lii

 

Valentine’s Day or Friends Day?

I consider Valentine’s Day as a very commercialised day (although which special day isn’t?), so I prefer to make it as little about presents. Here, in the UK Valentine’s day is the day for the lovers, but Finland, where I come from it is a day for friends. We used to send lovely notes to our friends on Valentine’s day and not only boys, and the whole day was wrapped around amazing friendships. Then, when I watched TV-shows about Valentine’s day I always dreamed of getting my own Valentine’s day card from a boy, but now that I see how I would like to spend a lovely relaxing day with my boyfriend and have a rejuvenating day with my friends as well.

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For somebody who’s friends are far away, celebrating Valentine’s day with them can be hard. I don’t really want to send them cards, but a nice and long letter can put a smile on their face. A letter can be written on a recycled paper or through email or other messaging apps with a picture of the two of you having a fun time. I personally love getting letters and messages from my friends, makes me smile every time!

 

However, if you want to send a card, try to choose one made from recycled cards. Block Forest cards are some of my favourites with their lovely quirky little animals and they have cards suitable for lovers as well as friends. Their cards are eco-friendly and even the display sleeve is biodegradable. How great is that!

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Pictures are from the BlockForest shop.

Do you celebrate Valentine’s day or Friend’s day?

With love,

Lii